I’m not sure I’ve ever felt this kind of despair before for the nation I live in. Every time I’d see the American flag growing up I felt good, felt safe, as though nothing could go wrong; yes, I know—the innocence of youth.
Growing up in the 60s and 70s, I saw the Vietnam war protests, the rise of the counter-culture, and the civil rights movement. I was too young to really understand all of the upheaval as my priorities were getting to school when I could, trying to navigate divorced parents, a mother who had custody but was unpredictable and a drug user, along with what seemed like constant from house to house moving, eventually ending in a foster care for a time. There were other things splashed in there too, like taking every picture with a peace sign, but you get the gist.
Fortunately for me, I had a father and step-mother (now my mother via adoption) spending about all the money they had, but eventually, in the early 70s, winning custody of me, my life becoming more stable and predictable and, well, normal.
I watched the Vietnam war on television—you couldn’t help it as it was broadcast every night, Walter Cronkite delivering the latest with scenes of helicopters hoisting the wounded and gunfire in the background.
I watched as the “generation gap” seemed to grow, pot use and other drugs slowly became normalized, and women asserted themselves because they’d rather “fight than switch” (if you get the reference). I saw and lived the Civil Rights movement, watched black men and women get fire hosed, batoned, night-sticked, and otherwise abused as they marched with Dr. King. I saw porn become mainstreamed, and Armstrong take “one small step for man”. New math was the bane of my existence in 3rd grade, confusing just about all of us, including my parents who had no way of helping me because “my teacher said we can’t do it that way”, only later to be supplanted by the aborted attempt to make us metric. I never became any good at math; Common Core math should take heed—but it won’t.
I remember Watergate, and although I didn’t quite understand it all, I knew our President did something bad and was going to be removed for it—and the milquetoast Gerald Ford, our Vice-President, was going to replace him. We talked about it at the lunch table, but the conversation quickly turned to Johnny Bench, George Foster, and Pete Rose of the Big Red Machine. By the way, pizza day was the best day—that rectangular piece of cardboard with imitation cheese made everything better.
I listened as music changed in so many genres: Rock became the land of Black Sabbath, Deep Purple, and The Rolling Stones, the Beatles becoming rather passé for my age group. Soul dominated my ears, the likes of Earth, Wind, and Fire, Marvin Gaye, and eventually Parliament becoming the soundtrack of my life…oh yeah, along with Barry Manilow, The Carpenters, Donna Summer, The Bee Gees, and George Benson. I never liked the social messages in music back then, Bob Dylan being the most overrated of them all to my mind, even today, but then again, I wanted positivity, love, and simply the joy of music. Let’s not forget the Chairman of the Board either, Mr. Sinatra being a mainstay in our Italian home, and for good reason.
Yes, there were problems in society, and upheavals. There were riots (Watts, Democratic National Convention in ‘68, the 12th street riot in Detroit), and even the energy crisis of ‘73, but I never felt despair. In my teens in the late 70s and 80s, I never felt despair that my nation was literally crumbling around me even as the Cold War was reaching its Zenith…until now.
I went to a mixed race school, both in grade school and high school, and never did I feel anyone was at each other’s throats because of the color of our skin. As a teacher on the verge of retirement, the schools I’ve taught at, 7 of them over my 35 year career – by choice – really never had student problems at all regarding race or ideology be it religious, sexual or anything else. The only problems were with schools dominated by gang membership—and I taught at one—there being 7 active gangs at one of the two. That was the only time there was upheaval, as certain gangs had problems with each other and it spilled into the building. Most of the time problems were squelched quickly, a summit meeting being held to air grievances and a truce negotiated.
Even then, the students I dealt with were good kids, most coming from extreme poverty, but kids trying to “make it” by sheer determination. I admired them for it as there were no excuses, only the truth of the lives they led. They were proud kids, very proud, and I was proud of them. Some fell through the cracks, but many didn’t, their sheer determination willing them to success and graduation.
I look around now and somehow I don’t feel that way. Teachers divided in their own schools, government extending its control over just about every aspect of our lives—and being welcomed with open arms by a large segment of our population while the other segment has disdain—resulting in both having contempt for each other as the net result.
Students being taught, in the spirit either rightly or wrongly of repairing wrongs done decades in the past, that some are still victims and others outright villains by adults who truly believe that or are virtue signaling is disheartening to say the least. They’re taught if they can’t there’s something wrong with them—that’s the excuse—and they can’t overcome without counseling or meds or something else. They’re taught they’re victims rather than they’re powerful by adults with personal agendas or who were programmed by quasi-intellectuals who base their teaching on faulty or biased history. Kids want to be taught honestly, fairly, and without an agenda; they are much more intelligent and intuitive than adults think, and can see through horse hockey more than adults know.
Academics, those who wish to be the moral leaders and arbiters of society, at least in their mind, justify the fostering of policies that further divide, by shoddy history, misconstruing facts, and circular logic that I’m not sure they believe. They do nothing but cloud the picture even more, divide us even more, and cause instability to the point that some 30% of young college age adults feel this nation needs to dissolve. That number will only grow as our nation self flagellates further, glorifying the process of doing so. These so-called academics are making some good headlines and the accompanying compensation that goes along with it, which I suspect may be their ultimate goal anyway.
There are true believers on both sides of the political chasm, people who cannot see beyond the narrative that makes them feel, with agenda driven academics seizing the opportunity to amplify the angst, driving themselves forward to more prominence. These charlatans and flim-flam personages begin to believe their own hype pushed forth by an agenda driven media, Pied Pipers leading their rats to the sea.
We’ve seen this play out before…all of it…although not exactly under the same circumstances, the ancient world being so far removed from ours through the mist of time. When a nation decides to rail against itself, tear at the fabric of itself, and focus on all the wrongs rather than its rights in equal balance, it chips at the pillars it was built upon with those pillars giving way and the civilization crumbling into smoking ruins.
Some will say “good, its about time”. Those are usually the ones that stand to benefit the fall, securing their place in the new world before the end. They know what they are doing, and delight in the destruction. Others lament the nation’s death, crying and wishing it would “just go back to the way it was”. They were the ones that saw the coming fall, regardless of their station in life, and allowed it to happen, believing it would never come. They were wrong, and as they stand among the rubble looking for their former lives, they lament their inaction. Still others will find their way out from the rubble, emerging covered in dust, look around and begin again to rebuild. They are the ones that simply continue, as worker ants rebuild the nest after its destroyed. They always seem to find a way—they are the survivors.
Most will regret the day as they don’t possess or understand the ramifications of their actions for they lived safe lives behind the walls of the once powerful nation, ignorant to the realities of the world as they never experienced the despair that exists beyond their borders—and they will cry—as the citizens of Rome did when the barbarians entered the Eternal City in 411 A.D. But it will be too late.
The problem is that it doesn’t have to be that way, but for us humans, it seems the only course. History seems to teach us that once a nation reaches a certain level of prosperity, complacency sets in. We seem to need an external threat to keep us occupied or else, like caged dogs after a time, we begin to turn on ourselves, which it seems we’re doing now.
We lose focus, and in the quest for greater ease, lose the work ethic that created the conditions we enjoy. We pass that ease on to our children who, looking for still greater ease, continue the trend until they or their children forget completely what it was to once work, to overcome challenges, to achieve, for they believe they’ve accomplished something simply by existing on the shoulders of those that came before them.
Work and struggle, those things that make us stronger become an anachronism rather than a duty. This might explain why college is the preferred route for many rather than trades—manual labor being seen as “below” them when, in fact, it might be the antidote (and often is). Or, maybe it leads to the “ambition” of becoming an “influencer” on social media, a much easier route than either of the previous two, with most “influencers” never becoming such anyway.
We, in our boredom with this ease of life, nitpick, poke, and invent crises to keep our attention, our government being allowed to extend its influence and power as a result—while we’re preoccupied. There was a reason Nero and others plied the masses with “bread and circuses”, and the people ate well during the slaughter—as we’re doing today; the promises of “free” and “exempt” and “we’ll take care of you because you can’t do it yourself” ringing in our ears.
Our leaders in Congress, much like the Roman Senate, abrogated their powers to the Executive, preferring to not be blamed for failures, and raking in the compliments for successes. The Roman Senate did the same for centuries, with the caveat of disposing of the leader when they decided enough was enough—assassinations being commonplace in the Empire. Ask yourself honestly, what has the Congress really done other than argue amongst itself, and speaking of the “President’s agenda” repeatedly, no matter who is in office?
Peruse social media and examine who has the most followers. In many cases, pseudo-intellectuals who may have an expertise in one area, but project themselves in others as though their expertise in one arena automatically translates to another seamlessly. Bill Gates knows education and medicine? Why? Because he has billions? Nome Chomsky, a brilliant linguist is an expert on economics? Why? Because he’s a brilliant linguist? Or is it he’s pontificating on a subject, socialism, that is the current cause du jour for many, especially the elite media and activist youth programmed by universities which have become little more than bot creating factories espousing post-modern gibberish.
No, we’ve become divided now more than we’ve ever been, even more than the 60s and 70s, our differences accentuated by hucksters who masquerade as experts, a government that is extending its power quickly (at both the state and local level), and a population that forgot this nation was founded on individualism. We listen because there’s nothing else to occupy our attention, almost reveling in crisis for in crisis there is purpose and meaning, without really investigating the facts—preferring to accept what the government feeds us. Dissenting voices are silenced, silenced to ensure acceptance and compliance.
We are dividing, quickly. Unlike decades past, the wounds are too deep to heal. The die is cast, and I fear it’s just a matter of time.
Great topic! Disagreements and divisions are two completely different things. I am very concerned for the division in our country and especially young kids. (Not our kids because they’re older and they can figure some things out) But pre-high school kids that can be easily influenced by unsound information that’s politically motivated. The division concerns more more than it probably should. What can I do? I’m one man…. Again nice article. Thanks